Why Agreement Is Not the Same as Leadership Alignment
You finish a leadership meeting believing everyone is aligned. The issue was discussed, different opinions were heard and a decision was made. Everyone leaves knowing what happens next.
Then you begin to see signs that the decision was not as settled as you thought.
One leader continues doing things the old way. Another raises concerns with you privately that they did not raise with the leadership team. Someone else gives their people a different interpretation of what was decided.
Before long, you are back in the middle, trying to create the alignment you thought the meeting had already produced.
Adding another meeting will rarely solve that issue.
Alignment is not agreement.
Put capable leaders around a table and they will see things differently. They have different experience, responsibilities and perspectives on the business. You want them to bring those differences into the conversation because part of being an A-Player leader is having the judgment and confidence to challenge an idea when they believe there is a better answer.
Healthy disagreement gives the leadership team access to that judgment. A leader may see a risk that others have missed. Another may understand how a proposed decision will affect customers, employees or their function. Someone may challenge an assumption the rest of the team has accepted.
The leadership team benefits when those perspectives are discussed openly while there is still an opportunity to influence the decision.
Leadership Alignment Happens After the Discussion
At some point, the discussion has to produce a decision.
Before that decision, leaders need room to challenge ideas and explain their positions. Once the decision is made, their responsibility changes. They need to understand what was decided, support the decision and lead their part of the business accordingly.
A leader does not have to believe their preferred option was chosen in order to commit to the decision. They had the opportunity to contribute their judgment. The leadership team considered the available perspectives and reached a conclusion. From that point forward, the business needs its leaders moving in the same direction.
This is where leadership alignment becomes visible.
Employees take their cues from their leaders. When one leader supports a decision while another continues questioning it with their team, people receive different messages about what the business is doing. A leadership disagreement that belonged around the leadership table begins spreading through the organization.
An A-Player leader understands that their responsibility extends beyond advocating for their own function or point of view. They also have a responsibility to the effectiveness of the leadership team.
That means speaking openly before the decision and committing after it.
A Simple Test of Leadership Alignment
There is a useful question you can ask about almost any important leadership decision:
Did the decision stay made?
Think about an important decision your leadership team made recently. It may have involved hiring, an investment, a customer issue, a change in priorities or the allocation of resources.
If the decision was clear and the leadership team was aligned, each leader carried it forward. People throughout the business heard a consistent message. Actions reflected what had been decided. The leadership team did not need to keep reopening the same discussion.
When that does not happen, the decision often finds its way back to the CEO.
The CEO clarifies what was meant, resolves differences between leaders, reinforces the decision or makes another call because the first one never gained full commitment.
One decision returning to the CEO is not significant on its own. A pattern of decisions returning to the CEO tells you something about the leadership capacity of the team.
As a business grows, that capacity becomes increasingly important. A strong leadership team needs to be able to work through differences, reach decisions and carry those decisions forward together.
A-Player Leadership Is Also a Team Standard
An A-Player consistently lives the company’s culture and performs at the level required of their role.
For someone on the leadership team, performance includes how they contribute to the effectiveness of that team.
Results, judgment, ownership and culture all matter. So does the ability to work with other leaders when there are competing priorities and different opinions.
You can have strong individual leaders and still have a leadership team that relies too heavily on the CEO. If leaders continually need the CEO to settle disagreements between them, clarify decisions or create commitment after the meeting, the business is not receiving the full leadership capacity those people are capable of providing.
A-Player leadership in practice means leaders take responsibility for more than their own area. They contribute to decisions affecting the whole business, challenge one another directly and help the leadership team move forward once a decision has been made.
That increases the capacity of the leadership team and gives the CEO more time to focus on the work only the CEO can do.
Try This With Your Leadership Team
Choose one meaningful decision your leadership team made in the past month, preferably one where there were different opinions around the table.
Review it together using four questions:
Did we disagree openly? Did people share their real perspective while there was still an opportunity to influence the decision?
Did we make a clear decision? Could every leader explain what was decided in the same way?
Did everyone carry the decision forward? Did each leader support it through their words and actions once they left the meeting?
Did the decision stay made? Or did it return for more discussion, clarification or intervention from the CEO?
These questions give you a practical way to look at how your leadership team works together when agreement does not come easily.
A strong leadership team can have a difficult conversation, use the judgment around the table, make a clear decision and then move forward together.
That creates greater leadership capacity as the business grows and reduces the number of decisions that need to find their way back to the CEO.
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